In recognition of International Men's Day, the Police Service of Northern Ireland (PSNI) is urging male victims of domestic abuse to come forward and seek confidential, judgement-free support.

The PSNI is highlighting the substantial impact domestic abuse has on men and boys across the region.

Figures for the 2024/25 year show that police recorded 5,747 domestic abuse crimes with a male victim. This total represents one third of all domestic abuse victims in Northern Ireland. Despite this high number, only around a fifth of these reported incidents resulted in a criminal sanction, suggesting that many men feel unable or unwilling to report the abuse or continue through the criminal justice system.

Detective Superintendent Kerry Brennan, the PSNI's operational lead for Domestic Abuse, stated: "Domestic abuse doesn't discriminate. Men and boys can be victims too and deserve to be heard and helped. If you're experiencing abuse—or worried about your behaviour—please reach out. Support is confidential and judgment-free."

The issue has serious consequences for children, too, with schools in Northern Ireland receiving approximately 18,000 Operation Encompass notifications each year, demonstrating how frequently children are directly affected by domestic incidents. DS Brennan continued with a clear message: "Domestic abuse takes many forms — physical, emotional, financial and coercive. We know that men often face additional barriers to seeking help, including fear of stigma, shame or disbelief. Our message today is clear: you will be taken seriously. You will be listened to. And you will be supported."

Domestic abuse can manifest in several ways that harm a man's wellbeing, confidence, and safety. This can include isolation from friends and family, control over finances or work, or various forms of coercive and controlling behaviour, where an abuser dictates who they speak to or how they live. Men often fear their role as a partner or father will be impacted, which frequently delays reporting until incidents escalate.

The PSNI is encouraging friends, family, and colleagues to look out for warning signs that a man might be experiencing abuse, such as unexplained injuries, noticeable anxiety or withdrawal, a partner who constantly checks up on him, limited access to money or communication devices, or visible distress when receiving messages.

The PSNI confirms it is working closely with partners across the voluntary and statutory sectors to ensure victims have access to timely and confidential help, and officers are trained to respond sensitively.

Anyone in immediate danger should call 999. Non-emergency concerns can be reported via 101 or online.

Support for male victims is also available through:

• Men's Advisory Project

• Victim Support NI